A series featuring car-free women in LA.
Basics: 31-year-old college English instructor, writing tutor, and the director of an educational outreach program for adults. Lives with a partner in Mar Vista. Child-free.
Car free since: June 2008.
Blogging since: September 2008.
Notable posts:
>> Kathryn’s pick: My Parents take a Car-Free Vacation
>> green LA girl’s pick: De-car-ing: The idea of cars as safety devices
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On going car-free….
When I first came to the idea of going car-free, my car was in a geriatric state. I was sick of getting it fixed but not excited about the extra debt I’d have to take on to replace it. I didn’t want to buy a new car, and I hated driving.
I had also recently heard about people who were making the decision not to own cars -– even people in LA who were doing this. I was concerned about the environment. I also disliked the role that cars played in society –- as flashy objects used to show status and wealth – and to separate people along socio-economic lines.
One morning, a hunk of metal fell off my car and started dragging on the pavement while I drove down Centinela Blvd. This was after getting a ticket for a burnt headlight, failing my smog test, having my battery die, and having my idle control (whatever that is) stop working altogether –- all in the span of 2-3 months. I was mad at the car, and I wanted to punish it!
My biggest obstacle was the fact that I often teach night classes and am unable to head home until after 10:18pm, when the last bus passes my workplace. I saw cycling as something that required spandex and special shoes, so I resisted the idea of pulling my old bicycle out of the garage. I tried an electric scooter for a while, and when that didn’t seem so reliable (the battery kept failing, leaving me stranded on my way to work), I nearly gave up. I finally gave the bicycle a try again (sans the spandex) – and it worked out just fine.
I was interested in reducing my environmental impact – and in social justice. These were both reasons to be car-free for me – and to stick with it when I had rough times.
How she gets around.
I ride my bicycle [to work]. My primary mode is the bicycle, and I use the bus when traveling farther than 6 miles.
I don’t think [Mar Vista] is the best neighborhood for car-free living, but it’s not bad. I’m on the edge of the Big Blue Bus, Culver City, and Metro bus systems, which is great sometimes (because of all the options) and not-so-great at other times (because not all the lines run regularly). Luckily, I do live close to work, and there’s both a bank and a grocery store within walking distance of my home. If I didn’t live so close to work, I don’t think I would have made the decision to go car-free.
My partner does own a car, but I don’t get to use it whenever. It took a little convincing to show him that I could go car-free without making life more difficult for us, so part of the initial deal was that I wouldn’t ask to use his car unless I really really needed it. The result is that I haven’t depended on access to his car. We do use the car together for some of the grocery shopping and when getting heavy items (like cat litter), but I’ve driven only twice since June –- once borrowing my partner’s car to pick up my parents (and their luggage) from the train station and once using Zipcar to get my parents (and luggage) back to the train station after the visit. I actually expected to have to get a car more often than I have. Then again, the rainy season is on its way. We’ll see how I do then–
On the upsides and downsides….
The longer I went car-free, the more reasons to be car-free I discovered. As I biked, I felt more connection with my city, neighborhood, and the LA River (which I ride over every day on my commute). I started recognizing my neighbors, waving and smiling to people I would never have met in my car-driving days. I also started shopping less (who wants to buy all that stuff when you have to carry it all the way home?). I realized that I was saving money left and right, which was very fine indeed.
After a few months, it seemed like car-free living might be the panacea to what ails our society – environmentally, socially, and politically. Without cars separating us from our cities, we can become citizens again, not just workers and consumers. That changes the game entirely, I think.
Once I got on my bike, the morning and evening commutes have been quite easy. I actually get to work almost as quickly as I did driving (no traffic). I didn’t think about the exercise I would get by riding my bike. When I started the car-free thing, I owned a gym membership that I hardly used. Once I started biking 6 miles/day, I could cancel my membership, save $30/month, and still get regular exercise.
Before going car-free, I also had the impression that I was going to far-flung territories for necessary things each week. It turns out that I don’t really need to venture far in a week, except for a special occasion every now and then. When you have a car, you find uses for it. When you don’t have one, it can be surprising to see how little you really need it.
I do have to think twice before saying yes to a trip across town – especially on nights and weekends, when buses run less frequently. I have a friend who moved to Silver Lake a year ago, and I’ve only met with her once since the move. It’s a long trip for her to get here – and twice as long for me to get to her. That’s been hard – I think for both of us.
Also, when I’m going somewhere new, it takes planning. The planning-thing took a while to get used to. I was so accustomed to jumping in the car at a moment’s notice that it was hard to think a day or two in advance, to be sure I could get there. For example, I once missed a colleague’s book launch party because it was on a Sunday night – and I hadn’t bothered to check the bus schedules until the last minute – after the last bus of the weekend had already come and gone.
Biking in the summer was tough for me at first. I’m not an LL Bean kind of gal, and I promised myself that I would not have to change my wardrobe in order to be car-free. I would not wear spandex to get to work, and I would not let my office smell like a locker room, after I climbed the hill to work every morning. With a little ingenuity, a comb in my purse, handy-wipes, and layers (always wear layers!), I’ve been able to bike to work and still wear suits, skirts, and earrings.
On car-dependent people.
It’s been difficult to explain to people why I’ve gone car-free. Some people, I’m sure, believe that I’m downright crazy. Other people seem to react with guilt for their long commutes and car-riding habits. Both of these reactions are tough, in their own ways. I’m most comfortable when my mode of transport isn’t a big deal to others.
When I tell people that I don’t own a car, some people react with shocked silence (as in “you don’t look like a weird person, but apparently you are crazy”). Others react with pity. Others worry about my safety. Some react with admiration. At first, each of these reactions worried me. A few things happened, though. First, people who see me every day got used to the fact that I walked back to my bike (rather than a car) after work or after a visit. Second, I felt less of a need to explain myself, as being car-free became more of a normal part of everyday life for me. It wasn’t a big deal to me, and the people around me seemed to pick up on that.
Advice for the car-free curious.
I had a lot of questions when I first decided I might want to go car-free. How would I get home from work at night? Could I get groceries, if I had to? Could I get the cat to the vet? What about downtown, off-site meetings for my job? What do people think, when you arrive for a meeting on a bike? How do you keep your hair looking decent under a bike helmet? Can I still carry my laptop to work? Is my bike cool enough to be seen in public? Can I still wear high heels?
I know it might sound silly, but questions like these can be a big deal. Transportation is part of the structure of our lives, and little questions can stand between a successful experience and the conviction that it’s just not possible to live without a car. Do seek out the answers to questions like these — and expect that it might take a little creativity and patience to get answers that work for you and your life.
With that in mind, I think it’s good to ease into car-free living, to get all the kinks out of your new transportation structure before you take the plunge to sell your car. Going car-free is a big life change, right up there with moving to a new city or changing jobs. It affects everything you do away from home, and it’ll take time to adjust to the change. As you’re figuring out your new system, you may get stuck waiting 30 minutes for a bus one day. You will probably be late to something once or twice. You might be unexpectedly early. You might also have some anxiety about getting stranded or feeling like you “need” your car more than ever, as you consider losing it.
It took me 6 months to get ready to ditch my car (and I hated driving in every way). I was anxious and excited and nervous and frustrated in those six months. Life seemed so hard sometimes, but over time, I adjusted, and I found what worked for me. The day I sold the car, I felt free – but it took time (and a lot of stubbornness) to get to that place. Make gradual steps until you’re ready.
It’s okay to be nervous at first about being out in the world (rather than hidden in a car). As women, we get a lot of fearful messages about how dangerous the world is. It’s good to be smart, of course, but I think it’s not a good idea to let the fear stop you from going places. I’m no jujitsu master, and since going car-free, I’ve gotten around safely without a car. I’ve taken buses into south central, downtown, and Brentwood, and I’m still alive.
Because there are plenty of messages out there about why not to go car-free, make a point to talk with other women who are car-free. When I was thinking about car-freeing my life, I read everything I could get my hands on. I remember seeing a blog post written by a woman who was car-free, and I emailed her with a question. She emailed me within a couple of hours and gave lots of encouragement. That email meant so much to me – and helped me find creative ways around the problems I faced. Talk to others.
Also, if you’re biking, do take a bike safety class. The class I took (from the LA Bicycle Coalition) changed my attitude and was empowering.
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green LA girl’s notes: The Culver City / Mar Vista area is very cute with a lot of amenities near by, but the area’s also surprisingly difficult to get in and out of using public transportation — so I’m impressed that Kathryn’s made it work.
Beginning de-car-ers would especially benefit from reading Kathryn’s blog, Car Freela, which has a lot of super practical tips for people who are considering driving less. Kathryn started the blog to fill a de-car-ing void she saw: “A lot of what I found was written by men, and I longed to hear that women did this too….. I wanted to ask someone how to avoid helmet head. I wanted to hear about how women got around at night without cars.” Now, Kathryn’s answering those questions herself and helping others out.
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